Sunday, March 8, 2015

Steps to becoming a Teen Entrepreneur

As you venture into becoming an entrepreneur and entrepreneurship, you need to focus on three very important steps to success. 1. Make sure to set goals before you get started. 2. Write down your business idea and create a business plan. 3. Understand how money flows by understanding a profit and loss statement and other relevant business documents.

Before we get started however let’s look at how Wikipedia defines entrepreneurship and entrepreneur. Entrepreneurship is the process of starting a business or other organization. The entrepreneur develops a business model, acquires the human and other required resources, and is fully responsible for its success or failure.

Let’s proceed. Why is goal setting so important? It allows you to determine why you want to do what you want to do. Why do you want to be an entrepreneur?  It’s the motivating factor. It’s what will get you moving forward when times get tough and they will. Nothing good ever comes without some hard work.  Take time to quietly think about why you want to do what you want to do before you consider the how. Is it to pay for college? Is it to help your family out? Is it to make a difference in the world? Is it to help a particular group of people? What is your burning desire? Vision provides clarity.

Now that you understand why you want to start a business, let’s look at how you will accomplish your goal. Again take time to quietly consider ways in which you might be able to accomplish your goal. Write down all your ideas. Evaluate the ideas. Do research via the internet, books, speaking with others etc. Then again take time to review your research and determine the best way to meet your goal and then put together a business plan with your vision, mission, business and marketing plan. Great organization leads to success.

Understand how money flows into your business and out of your business. Understanding this important part of business will help you determine a price for your product or service that allows you to grow your business and make money for you personally.  Many people do not learn this important step in starting a business and then wonder why at the end of the month, there is no money to pay themselves. Everything they made went into running the business. If you do not have profits, you cannot pay yourself.

These are just three steps in becoming an entrepreneur. Many more steps will be shared with you to help you grow yourself and your business.

To your success.

Michael’s MoM

Sunday, March 1, 2015

3 LEADERSHIP SKILLS FOR TEEN SUCCESS


What is leadership? What is a leader? What does it mean to lead? Does a teenager need to develop leadership skills?

Leadership is a trait that everyone should aspire to have. No matter what we do, we all need to learn how to be a leader and how to lead others. Teenagers are no exception.


According to David McClelland, “leadership takes a strong personality with a well-developed positive ego. To lead, self confidence and high self-esteem are useful, perhaps even essential.”  Developing a Positive Attitude is useful and our first leadership skill. You can begin to take action to improving your attitude with very simple steps. Read positive books, listen to positive audio, watch positive videos and invest in training courses that help you with personal development which will lead to a positive attitude and improving your leadership skills.


A leader is a person who leads or commands a group. The buck stops with them. John Maxwell states “If you won’t carry the ball, you can’t lead the team.”  That’s a very powerful statement and leads us to our second leadership skill, Personal Responsibility. Be the kind of person who embraces a victor mentality instead of a victim mentality. As a teen it is important to recognize that who you are and where you are is a result of how responsible you feel for your life.  It is not the responsibility of your parents, siblings, guardians, teachers, counselors, etc. You are the driver of your destiny.


Leading is no easy task. You must be Committed, our third leadership skill, to doing what needs to be done to develop your skills so that you can move from dreaming about success to implementing steps to success. Stephen Gregg states “People do not follow uncommitted leaders. Commitment can be displayed in a full range of matters to include the work hours you choose to maintain, how you work to improve your abilities, or what you do for your fellow workers at personal sacrifice.” The same can be said of leading a school club, sports team or church group.


So why is being a leader, leading and improving your leadership skills important for teens. No matter what you do in life, you will need these skills. Begin now to learn them, sharpen them and share them with others.  A teen can practice these skills by volunteering or working at Boys & Girls Clubs, recreation centers, church youth groups, summer camps, coach a sports team, etc.

So what are you waiting for? Get started NOW!

Monday, January 9, 2012

What is your purpose???

On September 4, 2010 I lost my youngest son in a tragic drowning accident in a canal in Wellington. Since then I have read so much about grief and heaven and faith.  I began writing my thoughts at the urging of a friend who encouraged me to write a chapter in her book. Recently, I wanted to write more ideas that were coming to me and began a Facebook Page by the same name, Michael and Me - A Love Story Between a Mother & Son, https://www.facebook.com/MichaelAndMe.aLoveStory 


I write pretty consistently there. Here is one of my posts.


We have a purpose in our lives. Before we arrived on earth we made a contract with our spiritual guides that we would come to earth and learn specific lessons. Everything that happens in our life is to help us to learn those lessons. What lessons are you learning from the passing of your children and how can you help others with that knowledge? In the past month I read '90 Minutes in Heaven' by Don Piper and now I'm reading his book 'Heaven is Real'. I'm thinking about those two questions I wrote above and have come to the conclusion that because of Michael and only Michael, I became a better mother and stronger woman. My other three children are wonderful however it was Michael's life-long medical issues, then school issues, then legal issues and most recently his alcohol and drug issues that taught me so much. If you had asked me prior to Michael's birth that I would have to deal with all of that, I would have said, I can't handle all of that. I'm ill equipped to take care of that child. I would never have believed that I could deal with brain surgery, recovery, therapists, MRI's, broken arms, fork lift accident, broken leg, court, jail, residential treatment centers, Baker Acting, binge drinking, and so many other things that just writing has my heart constricting. God sent Michael to me because he knew that I would take care of him and do everything in my power to take care of him. Michael was so happy all the time even though he dealt with so much. He was happy because I took care to make him as comfortable as possible. So what is your lesson in the passing of your child and what are you going to do now that you have learned this lesson? Sending you lots of blessings as you explore deep down inside for the answers. I'm here if you need to talk. Love, Michael's MoM

Friday, May 6, 2011

Burning the midnight oil...

I can't believe it... At midnight I was sleeping blissfully expecting to sleep 8 hours because I went to bed early and still be able to get up early to get my day started with one hour of personal development and one hour walk. It was not to be. My husband arrived home sometime before midnight and decided to work on his computer just a couple of feet from where I peacefully slept knowing how light a sleeper I am. Does that make sense? Why would he interrupt my sleep knowing that that morning I had been awakened and had slept very little. I sleep so poorly in general being a woman in her formative years and after losing my son 8 months ago, I have even more trouble sleeping. Today was one of those days. After he woke me up, I began to read a book and at about 1:30am, he was done and so we went to sleep. Now my mind is racing and I begin to think about my son and his accident and now I'm in tears and going into full blown panic. The problem with that is that my granddaughter is sleeping next to me and unlike my husband, I don't want to wake her up so now I exit the room and find something to do. First, I fold the sheets that my daughter washed that evening before and then I go on Facebook to see who is still awake. A friend mentions she is going to blog and then recommends that if I'm going to be up, I should write a blog. Now here it is... MY BLOG. This is my FIRST BLOG. I will write an article a week about random thoughts that might be of value. Today's message is... set ground rules for what can and can't happen in your bedroom or do like a friend of mine suggests, get separate bedrooms. Now that my son's bedroom is empty, that might be an option so my husband better watch out. Let me know what you would do if you were in my sheets!!! Blessings, NancY